Topic 1 of 10: parenting conference introductions
Thu, Jan 9, 1997 (23:18) |
Paul Terry Walhus (terry)
Introduce yourself please. Are you a parent? Or do you anticipate being
one someday?
37 responses total.
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Response 1 of 37: KitchenManager (KitchenManager) * Sat, Feb 1, 1997 (13:44) * 3 lines
Oops! I'll have to redo the response later,
have to check on the daughter.
WER
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Response 2 of 37: Caroline (Carolineevans) * Sat, Feb 8, 1997 (15:25) * 1 lines
Terry, is it o.k. if us Austen Ladies spill over into here to talk serious stuff? If so, can we create our own topics?
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Response 3 of 37: Paul Terry Walhus (terry) * Sat, Feb 8, 1997 (21:59) * 2 lines
OK course. Of course. Absolutely. Feel free about creating anything anywhere on
the whole Spring. It is my most fervent dream.
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Response 4 of 37: Serena (Serena) * Sun, Mar 2, 1997 (05:30) * 4 lines
Hi Terry, this is now on my hotlist too.. I'm a fellow Austen/ Drool person with 2 kids.. What am I doing in drool??... Need a break from reality and having a great time at it there!!
My previous babies : the boy's turning 4 in June and Ashleigh is 16 months young. Just when I thought I'll recover from the terrible three's, I see myself heading right back into it, second time round will be easier..fingers crossed.
Glad to have found this site.
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Response 5 of 37: Amy (Amy) * Fri, Mar 14, 1997 (10:10) * 1 lines
Hi. I'm Amy, another Austen addict. Two kids, both boys, Adam, 12 and Aaron 8. I am a single mom. I'm going to start a topic about gifted kids and invite some of our Austen teachers and former teachers to help sort something out with my oldest.
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Response 6 of 37: Margaret Howard (Meggin) * Fri, Mar 14, 1997 (23:27) * 1 lines
Hi, another Austen person here. I have 4 children---Katie, 16, Diana, 14, James, 11, and Scotty who will be 2 on May 1(all with the same husband). That breaks down to 2 in high school, 1 in elementary school, and 1 in diapers. I am definitely not looking forward to potty-training again!
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Response 7 of 37: Johanne (JohanneD) * Sun, Mar 16, 1997 (16:10) * 3 lines
Hi all, yet another Austen person :) As some already know, have only one daughter Laurence Astrid now age 3 1/2. Terrible 2 was not so terrible, seems at 3 to refine what she learned earlier. Daycare professional told me to watch out for 4, another ground breaking time while 5 another refining period.
Very early on can we see some strong points or skills, whether in arts, sports etc. Any comments on how and when should we "help" in developing their skills, and to what extent.
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Response 8 of 37: Enheduanna (Enheduanna) * Fri, Oct 17, 1997 (18:02) * 6 lines
Hi Meggin, that's quite a brood. Aren't teenagers a trip? I have two, both of whom live primarily with their father, though we have joint custody. We've been divorced about three years now. My daughter is 14, my son will be 16 in Dec. Both of them think they're grown up, just as I was sure I had mature understanding at that age. Bet you did too. They're forever testing boundaries.
Johanne-my daughter displayed an early musical talent. By the time she was three she couldn't walk by the piano without stopping to plunk at it. When she was still doing it at 5yrs old, I asked if she'd like to take lessons. Her enthusiastic grin was all I needed to get her started. For the next few years she took lessons, until I couldn't afford it anymore. By then she was in school music programs. By 7th grade she was doing well in band, the youngest vibrophone player they've ever had. (This was
elped along because we had a set of vibes set up at home along with all the other instruments available). She taught herself to play recorder and guitar. Now in 9th grade she sings in chorus, plays piano for the stage band, and drums in the other band.
She also loves to read, having had all manner of books and literature around her from the beginning. At 7yrs old she would read OMNI magazine on the toilet. Her artistic abilities flowered because there were always paints, crayons, paper, glue, etc. in a box under the coffee table.
I guess my point is, if a kid shows interest and ability, make available the tools they need. If they ask for help, give it and then stand back. Let them see YOU engaged in those activities too.
Gotta run now. Time to take her to karate.
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Response 9 of 37: Rev. "Thomas H. Smith", DOA (CotC) * Sun, Nov 16, 1997 (03:13) * 2 lines
OK. Here's the deal. I got smacked upside the head earlier this week by the Wife's biological clock. She recently turned 35 and her ovaries took over her body/mind/whatever-the-Hell-else-is-there... If anyone out there has any words or encouragement, I'd love to hear them. I guess spawning iswn't that bad of an idea, I'm just (more than) a little still freaked-out by the whole mess... (ask kitchen_manager/WER) I'm also more than a little drunk at the moment, but you can ask WER(red letters) about that als
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Response 10 of 37: Rev. Thomas H. Smith (CotC) * Sun, Nov 16, 1997 (03:16) * 1 lines
There was supposed to be an 'o' and a '.'(period) at the end of my previous response, but as I said I'm more that a litle drunk/stressed-out/typing-impaired at the moment...once again, my apologies...
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Response 11 of 37: Paul Terry Walhus (terry) * Sun, Nov 16, 1997 (22:40) * 4 lines
a friend of mind referred to that today as a "biological clock moment";
referring to an experience she had. A bcm.
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Response 12 of 37: wer (KitchenManager) * Mon, Nov 17, 1997 (00:49) * 2 lines
I'll be sure to remind him
that he posted here...
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Response 13 of 37: Rev. "Thomas H. Smith" (CotC) * Mon, Nov 17, 1997 (12:00) * 2 lines
No need to remind me. The Wife's been doing a fine job of that here of late.
WER saw her Friday night and told me she was the happiest he'd seen her in months -- BEFORE I told him about the biological time bomb thingy. Estrogen poisoning is a terrible thing...
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Response 14 of 37: wer (KitchenManager) * Mon, Nov 17, 1997 (22:56) * 1 lines
Depends upon who you are...
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Response 15 of 37: Rev. "Spawn til I die", DOA (CotC) * Tue, Nov 18, 1997 (10:02) * 2 lines
Or who I'm not, I guess... Man, I don't think I'm anybody today. The Valerian/Melatonin combo knocked me out so quick that I forgot to set the alarm, then I had dreams about walking on water (it felt like Jell-o) while ten-year-old skateboard punks shot at me with paintball guns from the shores of Lake Tahoe (the water on which I was walking) and I ruminated on the fact that it was all just TOO much fun... then the sun began to set and the jellyfish started to surface to dine on the damselfly hatch, and t
en I woke up. I TOLD you you should try this V/M combo before retiring!
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Response 16 of 37: Rev. "StID" (CotC) * Tue, Nov 18, 1997 (10:04) * 1 lines
Sorry... lost an 'h' fifteen words back... still getting the hang of this yapp thingy... Vision unstable as water... perfectly interchangeable...
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Response 17 of 37: Rev. "Me Again" (CotC) * Tue, Nov 18, 1997 (10:05) * 1 lines
Hey! How about a conference/group/topic devoted to inside jokes? WER & I could moderate/modulate...
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Response 18 of 37: Paul Terry Walhus (terry) * Tue, Nov 18, 1997 (13:48) * 2 lines
You want I should start a jokes conference?
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Response 19 of 37: Rev. Tommy (CotC) * Tue, Nov 18, 1997 (14:23) * 1 lines
Only inside jokes, please.
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Response 20 of 37: Martha Livingston (arthamom) * Tue, Jan 6, 1998 (01:10) * 2 lines
Hi. I'm a great perpetrator of the biological clock ambush. I have a 20-month-old son who was born when I was 36. I had actually given up hoping for the right circumstances and then...boom...he surprised us all. It's by far the best thing that's ever happened to me...and to my partner, too, I'm quite sure. He was scared, restless and uncomunicative at first, but a friend told me that "as soon as he feels the baby kick--just watch, he'll turn into the mighty hunter/gatherer and he'll never look back." Th
t's pretty much what happened, too. He's a great dad (he was scared because he didn't have great parents) and we're both abjectly in love with our boy.
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Response 21 of 37: Tommy (CotC) * Wed, Jan 7, 1998 (12:44) * 2 lines
This sounds familiar. I'm gonna be 37 next Thursday (The Wife's 35). By the way, that's what she goes by ("The Wife", it's a long story...).
Anyway, we're a'gonna start tryin' next month -- ya know, three days before she's supposed to ovulate lots an lots o sex cause we're trying for a daughter. I'm also concerned about the last of your parenthetical remarks as I don't want her/him/it/them to grow up with as crappy of a father and thus as crappy of a father/child relationship as did I. Anyway, we shall see...
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Response 22 of 37: Martha Livingston (arthamom) * Wed, Jan 7, 1998 (23:48) * 1 lines
I think you're way ahead, just by knowing what kind of dad you want to be--or at least what kind you don't want to be. Don is so patient and kind with our son--and so intuitive! I can read books and books and books about parenting, and when I'm done, I realize that he's been parenting the whole time and doing a great job. I think age is an advantage, too--both you and The Wife have seen and done a lot since you were significantly influenced by your parents, I bet. Good luck, and have fun trying!
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Response 23 of 37: Tommy (CotC) * Thu, Jan 8, 1998 (18:00) * 3 lines
Thanks for the encouraging words. Send The Wife some Ovulation-at-the-right-time-to-conceive-a-girl karma, if you would be so kind, although I know it's up to my poor chromosome-damaged (by the '70's) spermies to make the final decision. I'll have to have a stern pep talk with my boys...
ta.
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Response 24 of 37: Rev. Tommy (CotC) * Tue, Jun 16, 1998 (08:53) * 1 lines
Hello? Any of y'all still out there?...
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Response 25 of 37: wer (KitchenManager) * Tue, Jun 16, 1998 (23:31) * 1 lines
at times...what's the tomandsharembryo update?
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Response 26 of 37: wer (KitchenManager) * Tue, Jun 16, 1998 (23:32) * 1 lines
(btw...Deborah's preggo again, and Les and Wife adopted...)
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Response 27 of 37: Rev. Tommy (CotC) * Wed, Jun 17, 1998 (13:01) * 4 lines
We go in for the next Sonogram this coming Monday. I'll bring the tape in here
to work, capture the good parts, and e-mail you a clip or two.
Well, let's hope Deborah has better luck this time.
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Response 28 of 37: wer (KitchenManager) * Wed, Jun 17, 1998 (14:28) * 2 lines
I hope so...there's still problems, but she's made it far
enough to show...
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Response 29 of 37: Autumn Moore (autumn) * Wed, Jun 17, 1998 (21:35) * 1 lines
Hello! Sonogram--sounds exciting! Let us know what it revealed!
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Response 30 of 37: The World's Second Smallest Lummox (CotC) * Wed, Dec 2, 1998 (16:37) * 1 lines
Once again, time for the semi-annual post to this topic. My, how tempus fugits...
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Response 31 of 37: The World's Second Smallest Lummox (CotC) * Wed, Dec 2, 1998 (16:37) * 1 lines
Anybody else feeling temporally fidgetty?
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Response 32 of 37: Autumn Moore (autumn) * Sat, Dec 26, 1998 (21:04) * 2 lines
I'm here, Tommy...
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Response 33 of 37: Stacey (stacey) * Wed, Apr 23, 2003 (22:14) * 1 lines
Anyone round these parts still? Or are all the kiddos grown up?
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Response 34 of 37: Paul Terry Walhus (terry) * Fri, Apr 25, 2003 (09:25) * 1 lines
We ain't seen Lummox in these parts for a pretty fair spell.
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Response 35 of 37: wer (WERoland) * Tue, Aug 30, 2005 (21:43) * 1 lines
And, the last I knew, he was no longer at his former phone number. Have no idea where he is these days.
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Response 36 of 37: Stacey (stacey) * Sun, May 28, 2006 (21:46) * 1 lines
Anyone heard from Autumn in the last couple of years?? Her kids must be big too!
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Response 37 of 37: Paul Terry Walhus (terry) * Mon, May 29, 2006 (22:15) * 1 lines
I haven't. She's missed.
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